The things every high-achiever should know
It’s 10:30am on a dreary, rainy Wednesday. I’m trying to be productive, but running on six hours of sleep isn’t helping much. I check my email; nothing new since five minutes ago. Anything on Facebook? Oh, six new notifications! Oh, and a new Buzzfeed article all of my friends are sharing! Next thing I know, it’s 11:15am, and I haven’t done jack in 45 minutes.
Given how often the scenario above happens (can you relate?), I like the concept of “distraction blocker” apps that prevent you from accessing Facebook and other distracting websites during the hours of 9-5pm. With the temptation gone, it’s easier to get more done in less time. Sounds like a win-win, right? Well, almost.
Dieting sucks. Can we all agree on that?
I don’t think anybody in the world enjoys sacrificing his or her favorite foods, but sometimes, it just needs to be done. Whether you’re overweight, hunting down subtle, yet chronic, food allergies, or trying to gain muscle without excess fat gain, dietary modifications are inevitable for maintaining and improving health.
I’m in the process of a drastic – and thankfully, temporary – dietary overhaul. Pretty much all of my favorite foods are disappearing during a three month period in which I remove all potential food allergens and irritants from my diet. Take a look at the image above; the items shaded in red are the ones I’ll miss most during this three month trial:
Although these 12 weeks will be challenging, I’m no stranger to behavior change. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about making difficult lifestyle changes, it’s this: Identify all of your failure points, and plan out exactly how you’ll handle each one.
Popular lifehacker and author Tim Ferriss feels the same way. In his book, the 4-Hour Chef, he writes: Read the rest of this entry »
There’s too much unactionable information on the Internet.
Too many generic 10 Productivity Hacks You Need RIGHT NOW (And 2 You Should Never Do) articles out there, doling out surface level advice in rapid fire. Great for immediate gratification (“Wow! I just read an article with tons of great tips!”); absolutely awful for long-term retention and application of those ideas.
To convert new ideas into lifestyle change, you need deep focus, time investment, and an action plan that resonates with you (remember, you’re not average). Quick, easy-to-read lists offer none of these necessities.
One of the first things a student in a statistics class may learn is how to calculate the variance of data.
Two data sets may have the same average value, but one data set may have significantly more samples on the extremes.
For example, two cities have an average household income of $70,000. One city has low variance; almost all households make between $60,000 and $80,000. The other city is a bit more extreme; half of the city makes less than $30,000, the other half making over $110,000.
Although the average household income is the same in both cities, the way you’d handle each city’s situation would be quite different.
Similarly, when talking about a specific group of people (artists, bankers, San Franciscans, New Yorkers, men, women, etc.), you’re missing the point if you only focus on the average person in that group.
On that note, I’ve noticed a lot of advice in books, blogs, lectures, and news publications tends to be worded to appeal to the most amount of people. In other words, vaguely pointed at the “average” person.
For example, here are a few headlines I’ve seen floating around the interwebs today, from both small and large publications:
Unfortunately, when people dole out advice that is meant to apply to a wide group of people (whether to sell a product or in an attempt to be genuinely helpful and build readership), you need to take it with a grain of salt.
Why? Simply stated, you’re not average. In fact, as we pointed out at the beginning of this post, the idea of an “average person” is a myth.
Side note: For a brilliant talk on the topic of the “average person”, I’d highly recommend watching The Myth of Average: Todd Rose at TEDxSonomaCounty
You’re a unique combination of personality traits, skills, desires, thoughts, and expressions. You’re anything but average, which means that following cookie-cutter advice – designed for the “average person” – can be unwise, if not dangerous.
For example, just because Steve Jobs has given advice that can be summed up as seven rules of success, doesn’t mean that you should follow them to a tee. For example, note the number one piece of advice in this Steve Jobs article: Do what you love.
Personally, I’ve found that the advice to do what you love can do more harm than good, as it’s not always possible to simply “figure out” what you love. This is well argued by various thought leaders and scholars on the web, and I’ve found better success following alternative recommendations on this subject (in particular, passion isn’t something you seek; for many, it grows over time from mastery of a skill set).
So what’s a unique individual – in other words, everyone on the planet – to do instead of accepting advice designed for mass appeal?
Doubt and experiment.
Set up a filter for any recommendations, advice, or wisdom you receive, especially if it wasn’t based on a careful consideration of who you are as an individual.
Unless you read it on this blog, of course.
In all seriousness though, this idea of strict trial and error is the basis for much of what I’ve figured out in my life. I’d estimate that 5-10% of the recommendations I test out actually work well for me. By being a harsh judge, I’ve saved tons of time that used to be spent forcing myself to be patient with ideas and advice that simply didn’t fit.
Note: This technique doesn’t apply to building habits. Habits will require time and patience no matter how well it fits into your lifestyle.
If there’s one thing to remember here: You’re not average. Average is a myth. Any recommendation that’s made for the average American, man, woman, accountant, entrepreneur, whatever, should be taken with a grain of salt, and diligently tested. If it passes your test, great. If not, move on and wait for the next round of ideas to come your way.
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