How to Attain Happiness… And Keep It

In: Happiness

15 Jul 2010

This video does an amazing job of explaining the philosophy behind happiness in a way that anyone can understand.

Watch the video (only 5 minutes long) and then see my comments below the video for an activity to help you work with its recommendations.

Update: This video has gone private as of July 16th. Hopefully the creator will open it back up to the public soon! In the meanwhile, the exercise below is still valuable.

The video concludes with the recommendation that the infinite pursuit of knowledge is what keeps a person happy. “Knowledge” is a such a broad term, so here is an activity to help you figure out what sort of knowledge resonates stronger with you.

1) Write down a goal on a Word document or piece of paper. (e.g. – To get a promotion at work)

2) Underneath that, write WHY you want to attain this goal. (e.g. – So I can make more money)

3) Underneath that, write WHY you would want to attain what you wrote in step 2. (e.g. – So I can save up for retirement.)

4) Keeping asking yourself why you want what you wrote down in the previous step until you reach the conclusion: “To be happy.” See the example below to understand what the result of this activity might look like:

I want to have 1,000 Fans on the Living For Improvement Facebook Page.

(Why do I want this?)

So that a community develops where people can learn from each other and share their views on the topics I discuss on the blog.

(Why do I want this?)

So that my blog becomes better known throughout the country.

(Why do I want this?)

This will allow me the possibility of becoming a full-time blogger and author.

(Why do I want this?)

This will allow me to have a career that I truly enjoy, help people better their lives, and make a decent living doing it.

(Why do I want this?)

So I can make a positive impact on society, have the freedom to experience the world and all it has to offer, and never regret my path in life.

(Why do I want this?)

Because this would make me happy.

I did this activity a few months ago and it helped me realize that what makes me most happy is knowing that I am making an impact on the world through a job I love and experiencing as much of the world as possible through travel and trying new things. To continually grow in these areas requires me to learn about blogging, marketing, travel, new languages, different cultures, the various areas of personal development, and much more. This is the type of knowledge that gives me happiness.

Try this exercise and see if you can find your source of happiness. I’ll be glad to help you with it, so leave a comment below if you have any questions. I’m also curious to know how well this exercise works for you, so consider leaving a comment below on how well it worked for you!

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  • http://www.improvingyourpersonalgrowth.com ashley@self improvement

    Nice post! Many people are pretty unhappy in life because there are so few things they enjoy doing. Oddly enough, every single thing that can be done is enjoyed by someone. The key to unlocking more happiness is already in your head, and you just need to find it.



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